Updated 8/2019; I am realizing that I am attracted to the human being, attracted to the quality of caring nature. I crossdress and have been going out in public a lot and love the feeling. I am a very sensual, and affectionate genderfluid man who is seeking a woman, special CD/TG/TS or a man or couple for e-mail chat and possible meeting for more. I feel a void in my life that I would like to fill with a special friend. I am physically fit, active, intelligent and playful. I am very experienced and would like to share my enjoyment of physical play and crossdressing with someone who also enjoys or appreciates it. I give a nice massage, love to touch and am very tactile in my senses. I have a serious daily yoga practice and am very flexible in bed. I am involved with the Tantra community and know the arts of Tantric touch. Wrestling, rolling around, cuddling and laughing, with a fit, active, lively friend is what I imagine a lot. I love to adore my lover, to give oral, to pleasure them! I have a lot of sexual energy and sometimes get lost in it. I enjoy hiking, bicycling, camping out in the woods, skiing, golf, and working out. I also like music, jazz and classical, plays, opera, dance. I travel a lot.....................So I would be able to meet on a prearranged weekend for companionship

My Ideal Person Update 12/2022; Seeking those who are open to my varied presentations and who would like a friend to go out with and explore the journey. Since I cannot commit to a partnership, I want to be clear that I am seeking a discreet FWB/NSA. I thought about "poly", but that seems to be very specific to groups where all participate, and since my wife is not interested, that does not work. So the ideal would be a person who are committed to occasional get togethers and who would like to have a me as a playmate who would come over or arrange a rendezvous occasionally for fun to spice up their lives and mine. I hope this arrangement will be better since I am married, in an open relationship, where I am the solo participant in the open part. I'd like to meet a person who is/are confident in mind, body and spirit, who is constantly improving herself or himself or themselves, and who has a large sexual appetite. Since I am now committed to my marriage, and that could change, that special friend, would have a similar life situation to balance us. In essence, I am seeking a friend with benefits, who can be discreet. We might have needs to fill for each other, like a lacking relationship, busy life in need of some fun or family stress to steal away from occasionally. Fitness is important to me to be able to share a lot of the activities I love. I would like to share quality time with a friend who I will be nurtured and physically adored by and who I will nurture and adore. I love to give and receive oral/anal and listen to instruction on giving pleasure! I enjoy a partner who likes to lose themselves in a sensual and sexual connection for hours at a time. I’m can be very sexual, and seek someone who loves my being into them sexually. Then we can take some time to savor the sweet energy of lovemaking together. That might be a walk on the beach, a hike in the woods, dancing to music, or just plain cuddling to precede and follow our sexual pleasure.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Frank Zappa, Miles Davis, Gustav Mahler

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Making love in the woods or on a beach..........Being together
physically for a whole day! Admiring my lover's wonderful
body, by kissing, caressing, and massaging all over. Being
adored and touched and held tight.....Feeling my lover's
arousal and their keen hunger for stimulation. My lover
dominates me, spanks me, and I love being fucked anally. I love slipping on women's lingerie and other
clothes!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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